New rules make no sense

The state of Virginia has passed new requirements for families wishing to adopt which will go into effect on May 1st.  We received our list of new requirements to assure that our home meets these  new standards.  Some of them I understand, but many seem a little unnecessary.  My favorite new rule is their standards for the temperature of the house. According to the new regulations, our home must always be between 65 and 80 degrees.  I thought that the government wanted us to be more energy efficient???  We live in Virginia, not San Diego.  It gets cold in the winter and hot in the summer time and somehow people have survived for hundreds of years in this environment without their homes being in this temperature range.  We don't want our children to freeze or have heat stroke while sleeping at night, but these rules go way beyond that.

Many of the other rules pertain to how much space a child is required to have.  Each child must have their own closet space, personal bedding, a room where a child under age 7 is not allowed on the top bunk, and over age 2 is not allowed to share space with a child of the opposite sex.  I guess we are in violation because we allow our 5 year old to sleep on the top bunk and at times all of the siblings sleep together in the same room.  There are many other things that we have to change or purchase including a fire ladder and a lock box for all of our medication.

I know that these rules are trying to protect children but it all seems a bit extreme.  Especially when I think about the situation that most of these children are presently living in right now.  I think it would be better for a five year old little girl to sleep on the top of a bunk bed, while her 3 year old brother sleeps below, in a house that is 64 degrees, than to go to sleep in a small room with 20 other children and no mama to sing her a lullaby.  But that's just my opinion.

Comments

  1. My question is... Shouldn't mama get her own closet space before the kid? Funny rules! My brother had to lock up all knives bf adoption.

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  2. Sonya, which agency are you using for your homestudy?

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  3. We are using CHSFS and LOVE them!!! We have used them for both adoptions and had a fabulous experience. These rules are for the state of Va, not specific to our agency, but all adoptions in Virginia.

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  4. do they apply now, before the child comes home, or to pass home study? Wondering if we will be hearing about them as we wait for our own to come home...

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  5. These rules sound very similar to the state of michigan's childcare center rules. Some of them are good yes and make plenty of sense but some of them are definitely written by people that have spent little or no time in a center. I am praying for you guys!

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  6. they apply for families at all stages of the adoption process, including post placement. i am investigating now who we should contact to voice our opinion. stay posted.

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  7. Ah, welcome to our world of foster care :) It's frustrating! We have to review our fire escape plan on a monthly basis with our infants. They also have to have that plan posted on the nursery wall. They also told us once that we weren't in compliance because our trash can (which is behind a child-locked door) didn't have a lid on it.Just the tip of the iceburg...Sigh....The process is worth it in the end. Keep your eye on the goal...you can do it!

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